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  3. February
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  5. You and Your Ex
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Good day!

We are psychology students conducting a study on the perception of an "EX", or a person one used to be in a romantic relationship with. It would be very much appreciated if you could take part in our research by answering the questionnaire below. Please try to answer all the items and remember that there are no right or wrong answers.

We assure you that all the information you will be providing us will be kept strictly confidential.

For each of the following questions, think of your most recent "EX"--a person you used to be in a romantic relationship with.

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Age
   
 
 
 
Gender
 
Male
 
Female
 
 
 
How long were you and your ex together?
   
 
 
 
How long has it been since you and your ex broke up?
   
 
 
 
Are you in a relationship right now?
 
Yes
 
No
 
 
 
Is your ex in a relationship right now?
 
Yes
 
No
 
 
 
Were you and your ex good friends even before you got together?
 
Yes
 
No
 
 
Think of your most recent "EX"--someone you used to be in a romantic relationship with. Rate your most recent "EX", yourself, and your ideal self on the traits you know using the following scale:

6 - Yes, yes, yes
5 - Yes, yes
4 - Yes
3 - No
2 - No, no
1 - No, no, no

Try to have as much variation as you can in how you rate your "EX". Some people simply give a rating of just 1 and 6, and the results become unreliable. On the other hand, some people just confine their ratings to 3 or 4, and the results become uninteresting.
Ex Self Ideal
Adventurous
Articulate
Assertive
Bossy
Broadminded
Cheerful
Colorful
Considerate
Credible
Dependable
Ex Self Ideal
Easygoing
Energetic
Entertaining
Exciting
Friendly
Gentle
Good-looking
Hardworking
Hot-tempered
Intelligent
Ex Self Ideal
Lazy
Leader
Patient
Practical
Pushy
Queer (Odd)
Quiet
Realistic
Religious
Reserved
Ex Self Ideal
Responsible
Selfish
Show-off
Shy
Suspicious
Thrifty
 
 
Please read the following items and indicate how intensely you agree or disagree using the following scale:

6 - Yes, yes, yes
5 - Yes, yes
4 - Yes
3 - No
2 - No, no
1 - No, no, no
1 2 3 4 5 6
I still speak to my ex on a regular basis.
My ex and I share many of the same values.
My ex broke my heart.
Honesty played a big part in our relationship.
I don't know who my ex is anymore.
I still go to my ex for advice.
I am proud to have been with someone like my ex.
I want to be like my ex.
My ex is not the same person I fell in love with.
We broke up because my ex was not honest with me.
1 2 3 4 5 6
My ex and I still keep tabs on one another.
I have lost my respect for my ex because of her/his infidelity.
I hate my ex.
Thinking about my relationship with my ex makes me angry.
My ex has changed since we were together.
Despite everything that's happened, I am not mad at my ex.
I do not see my ex anymore.
My ex and I broke up because we valued different things in life.
I still feel the need to impress my ex.
I have to look my best whenever I know I'll bump into my ex.
1 2 3 4 5 6
I am still open to getting back together with my ex.
My ex is my type.
There aren't many differences between how my ex used to act and how she/he acts now.
I still find my ex hot.
I can't help but stare when my ex walks by.
I am not attracted to my ex anymore.
I think that I will still be with my ex in the end.
I do not care about what my ex thinks of me.
I still experience butterflies in my stomach whenever I think about my ex.
I still mention my ex's good qualities to other people.
My relationship with my ex ended on good terms.
I would like a second chance with my ex.
I'd rather pretend my ex did not exist.
I want to settle down with someone like my ex eventually.