Wedding

We are attempting to plan our wedding for next year. The date we're considering is Friday, October 9, and we are considering following the old tradition of celebrating through the weekend. We have friends and family in five states and the UK, and as you may have guessed, this won't be your average wedding. We'd appreciate it ever so much if you could answer the following questions to help us plan where and when! It shouldn't take more than a few minutes.

If the wedding is held in Brookdale, California (about an hour southwest of San Jose):

I will fly

I will drive

I can't come

Other

If the wedding is held within an hour of Portland, Oregon:

I will fly

I will drive

I can't come

Other

If the wedding is held in Michigan:

I will fly

I will drive

I can't come

Other

If the wedding is held in Kansas:

I will fly

I will drive

I can't come

Other

If the wedding is held within an hour's drive of Denver, Colorado:

I will fly

I will drive

I can't come

Other

Ideally, I would like to bring

My significant other

My kid(s)

Other

For those with children too young to sit still and be quiet during the ceremony, can you arrange for childcare:

I/we can only attend if:

The wedding is held in my state

I can get child care

Pigs fly

Other

If we keep to the old tradition of celebrating through the weekend (October 9, 2015 - October 11, 2015) would you stay through the weekend?